How to Pick the Perfect Gemstone for You

SP Green • June 25th, 2025 • Advice

There’s something truly special about gemstone jewellery. Whether it’s the rich colour, the sparkle, or the meaning behind the stone, a great piece can feel like it was made just for you. But with so many beautiful options out there, how do you find the one that’s right?

At SP Green, we believe jewellery should reflect you. It should suit your style, your energy, and even your story. Whether you’re buying for yourself or someone else, choosing a gemstone is more personal than people often realise. It’s not just about what looks good—it’s about what feels right too.

Let’s take a closer look at how to choose a gemstone that truly speaks to you.

Start with the Colours You Love

Colour is usually the first thing people notice about a gemstone—and it can tell you a lot. Some colours make you feel calm, others energised. You might already know which colours suit you, based on what you wear day to day.

Think about what you’re naturally drawn to. Do you prefer cool tones like blue, lavender, or green? Or do warmer colours like red, orange, and gold catch your eye?

Your skin tone can also be a great guide:

• If you have cool undertones, try stones like sapphire, emerald, or amethyst.

• If you have warm undertones, look at ruby, morganite, topaz, or aquamarine.

• Neutral undertones? You can wear just about anything.

It’s less about rules and more about what makes you feel good. If a colour lights you up, that’s a strong sign it’s right for you.

Take a look at our gemstone jewellery collection and see which colours you’re naturally drawn to.

Choose a Stone with Meaning

Gemstones have carried symbolic meaning across cultures for centuries. Whether you're drawn to the traditions behind these stones or simply love the idea of wearing something with personal significance, selecting a gem based on its meaning can make your jewellery feel more intentional and special.

Here's what these classic gemstones represent:

Ruby – Bold and passionate, rubies symbolise love, courage, and vitality. They're believed to inspire confidence and protect the wearer, making them perfect for those who want to feel empowered.

Sapphire – Known for wisdom and nobility, sapphires represent truth, sincerity, and mental clarity. They're thought to promote focus and inner peace, ideal for those seeking balance in their lives.

Emerald – Rich and harmonious, emeralds are associated with growth, renewal, and love. They're said to bring harmony to relationships and enhance intuition, perfect for those who value connection and understanding.

Aquamarine – Serene and soothing, aquamarine embodies tranquillity and clear communication. It's believed to calm the mind and encourage honest expression, wonderful for those who seek peace and clarity.

Whether you fully embrace the metaphysical properties or simply appreciate the beautiful stories these stones tell, choosing a gemstone for its meaning adds a personal touch that goes beyond mere aesthetics.

Think About Your Birthstone

Another lovely way to personalise your jewellery is through your birthstone. These have been around for centuries and are often chosen for special gifts or milestone jewellery.

Here are a few examples:

• January – Garnet: strength and protection

• February – Amethyst: calm and wisdom

• March – Aquamarine: clarity and courage

• April – Diamond, White Sapphire: purity and eternal love

• May – Emerald: growth and new beginnings

• June – Pearl: wisdom and innocence

• July – Ruby: love and passion

• August – Peridot: healing and renewal

• September – Sapphire: insight and stability

• October – Opal or Tourmaline: creativity and inspiration

• November – Yellow Sapphire, Citrine: abundance and positivity

• December – Tanzanite: peace and good fortune

Birthstones are a nice way to feel connected to your identity, but they’re not strict rules. If you love a different stone, go for it. Some months even have more than one option, so you can choose what suits you best.

Feel the Energy

For many people, gemstone jewellery has a deeper energy. It’s not just about how it looks—it’s how it makes you feel. Some stones are said to protect your energy, while others are linked to creativity, focus, or emotional healing.

If you’re drawn to this idea, here are a few examples:

• Black Onyx – believed to offer grounding and protection

• Citrine – encourages joy, confidence, and motivation

Even if you’re just curious, it’s a lovely way to connect with your jewellery in a more personal way. It becomes something you carry with you—not just wear.

Trust Your Gut

Sometimes, the best way to choose a gemstone is to just go with your instinct. You might see a piece and immediately feel connected to it. Maybe it reminds you of something—or someone. Maybe it just feels like you.

That’s reason enough.

You don’t always need to follow a guide or pick a stone based on rules. If something feels right, it usually is. And when it comes to jewellery, that’s the feeling you’re really looking for.

Get in touch to find out more or to see some of our gemstone jewellery in person, book an appointment with our team.

Find the One That Speaks to You

At SP Green, we’ve created a gemstone jewellery collection that celebrates individuality. Whether you’re after a subtle accent or a bold, colourful statement, each piece is thoughtfully crafted to help you express your personal style.

From delicate pendants to sparkling rings and elegant earrings, our gemstone range includes designs that are timeless, meaningful, and completely wearable.

So whether you’re choosing based on colour, birthstone, energy—or just because you love how it looks—there’s a perfect piece waiting for you.

Explore the full SP Green gemstone jewellery collection and find a stone that feels like it was made for you.